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Erschienen in: Current Sexual Health Reports 3/2017

22.08.2017 | Integrating the Psychosocial (B McCarthy, R Segraves and A Clayton, Section Editors)

Estimates and Correlates of Engagement in Consensually Non-Monogamous Relationships

verfasst von: M. L. Haupert, Amy C. Moors, Amanda N. Gesselman, Justin R. Garcia

Erschienen in: Current Sexual Health Reports | Ausgabe 3/2017

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Abstract

Purpose of Review

Interest in consensually non-monogamous (CNM) relationships—in which partners have explicitly agreed that pursuing other romantic or sexual partners is permitted—has grown both among the American public and among researchers and practitioners. Yet, little is known about the prevalence of CNM relationships or factors related to engagement in these relationships.

Recent Findings

In this review, we synthesize the past 5 years of research on CNM relationships to provide insight on (1) definitions of differing CNM relationships, (2) how many people are engaging in or have previously engaged in CNM relationships, and (3) which social identities and individual differences are associated with CNM engagement.

Summary

Engagement in CNM relationships has been linked to positive aspects of sexual health such as open conversations about sexual needs and risk, and greater condom use. Researchers and practitioners should further address perceptions of and approaches to relationships outside the standard of monogamy.
Fußnoten
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We conducted our initial literature review in Scopus, searching for peer-reviewed, English-language articles published between January 2012 and March 2017 with the keywords nonmonogamy, non-monogamy, nonmonogamous, polyamory, polyamorous, polyfidelity, swingers, “open relationship,” or “non-exclusive relationship.” The initial search yielded 250 articles. The first author read through the abstracts and excluded papers on irrelevant topics, theory papers, ethnographies, and case studies. This reduced the list to 39 articles, which we obtained and read in full to confirm their relevance to prevalence of CNM. At this stage, we also excluded papers with sample sizes less than 50 (as they cannot provide meaningful information about prevalence), those using samples not from North America and those that did not specifically ask about the nature of their participants’ relationship agreements (as such studies cannot distinguish between CNM and infidelity). We were left with a final list of 16 papers (marked with a bullet [•] in the References), for which summary demographic information is reported in Table 1.
 
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Metadaten
Titel
Estimates and Correlates of Engagement in Consensually Non-Monogamous Relationships
verfasst von
M. L. Haupert
Amy C. Moors
Amanda N. Gesselman
Justin R. Garcia
Publikationsdatum
22.08.2017
Verlag
Springer US
Erschienen in
Current Sexual Health Reports / Ausgabe 3/2017
Print ISSN: 1548-3584
Elektronische ISSN: 1548-3592
DOI
https://doi.org/10.1007/s11930-017-0121-6

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