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Growing old and lonely in different societies: Toward a comparative perspective

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The main argument of this paper is that the subjective experience of loneliness among older people must be analyzed in relation to the overall value system of society or the subcultural values of particular segments of society. Cultural or subcultural value systems are contrasted in terms of whether they give priority to individualistic values or to collective values such as family or community bonds. These differences in value systems result in important differences in people's social contacts and socioemotional bonding experiences as well as their level of satisfaction with a given level of social relationships. It is suggested that these differences must be looked at in relation to basic human needs for social bonding as well as needs for individuation. The concept of the loneliness threshold is introduced to identify the level of social contacts that individuals desire to avoid the experience of loneliness or emotional isolation.

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Johnson, D.P., Mullins, L.C. Growing old and lonely in different societies: Toward a comparative perspective. J Cross-Cultural Gerontol 2, 257–275 (1987). https://doi.org/10.1007/BF00160684

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