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Maintaining Men's Dominance: Negotiating Identity and Power When She Earns More

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This article examines the power dynamics in marriages where wives earn substantially more than their husbands based on in-depth interviews with husbands and wives in 30 couples. The results demonstrate how normative gender expectations constrain interactions between spouses and how spouses in these unconventional marriages struggle to construct appropriate gender identities that are more or less consistent with the conventional expectations that men should be breadwinners and women should be homemakers. These data represent an important counterpoint to the growing body of quantitative work that demonstrates that a woman's power diminishes as her income exceeds her husband's by illuminating how men's power is preserved within marriage, even in the absence of their traditional economic dominance.

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Tichenor, V. Maintaining Men's Dominance: Negotiating Identity and Power When She Earns More. Sex Roles 53, 191–205 (2005). https://doi.org/10.1007/s11199-005-5678-2

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