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Using survey data from married and cohabiting adults in the midwestern U.S. (N = 257), I examine the way gender ideology–work discrepancies relate to distress and self-meanings. Among women, discrepancies are unrelated to distress and negatively related to feelings of power and activity as a wife and mother, results consistent with self-consistency theory. Among men, discrepancies are negatively related to distress and positively related to feelings of goodness, power, and activity in several roles, results consistent with compensatory self-enhancement theories. The results suggest that men experience discrepancies as self-image threats to which they respond by inflating their self-evaluation, self-power, and self-activity, whereas women experience discrepancies as stressors that reduce feelings of power and activity.
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I thank Alison Bianchi, Rob Clark, Erin Maher, and Kristen Marcussen for helpful feedback. Portions of this paper were presented at the 2003 American Sociological Association annual meeting in Atlanta, GA.
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Kroska, A. Exploring the Consequences of Gender Ideology–Work Discrepancies. Sex Roles 60, 313–328 (2009). https://doi.org/10.1007/s11199-008-9552-x
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