This international qualitative investigation has demonstrated the challenges which family members of patients hospitalised with a critical care COVID-19 admission experience following hospital discharge. Support mechanisms such as peer support networks should be considered for family members to ensure ongoing needs are met. |
Introduction
Methods
Design and setting
Data analysis
Results
Demographic feature | N = 19 |
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Country, n (%) | |
UK | 11 (58) |
Spain | 8 (42) |
Patient relationship to family member, n (%) | |
Partner | 15 (79) |
Child | 3 (16) |
Sibling | 1 (5) |
Sex of family member (study participant), n (%) | |
Male | 4 (21) |
Female | 15 (79) |
Median age of family member, years (IQR) | 57 (51–62) |
ICU length of stay, median days (IQR, range) | 19 (10.5–35.8, 8–50) |
Hospital length of stay, median (IQR, range) | 38.5 (19.5–47.5, 10–85) |
APACHE II score, median (IQR, range) | 14 (12–16.8, 4–25) |
Invasive mechanical ventilation, n (%) | 16 (88.9%) |
Time from hospital discharge to interview, median months (IQR, range) | 20 (19–31, 18–32) |
Socio-economic status of patient, n (%) | |
Scottish Index of Multiple deprivation (UK patients only) | |
SIMD 1–5 (Most Deprived) | 6 (55%) |
SIMD 6–10 (Least Deprived) | 5 (45%) |
Territorial socio-economic status, n (%) | |
IST 1–5 (Least deprived) | 3 (37.5%) |
IST 6–10 (Most deprived) | 5 (62.5%) |
Theme | Illustrative quotes |
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Changing relationships and carer burden | ‘It was a shock when I [saw] him. A total shock. Because… he hadn’t been shaved in the neck and just, it made him look older. His hair was longer, he had lost about three stone. He just looked petrified. He has the Zimmer frame.’ ‘At that time, the kitchen is downstairs, we sat a lot in the living room, but *** was in pain for an awful long time when we first got back. Because basically, she was really weak and managing the stairs was a huge problem.’ ‘I mean he will never be that 100% guy again and he knows that. I think he knows that now. I think sometimes he gets angry with himself because he can’t be that same guy again. He is suffering just now. He has been in pain for the last few weeks.’ ‘….had like memory issues. That was kind of hard to cope with, because he didn’t think he had memory issues…’ ‘He came by ambulance when he was discharged, with practically no mobility, he was with two nurses. We bought what we were told. First a support of those who go with four legs, material to shower … And it was a permanent struggle day by day.’ |
Family health and trauma | ‘I had, for example, to limit calls because I couldn't be talking every moment. I talked to my daughter and told her "you answer the calls because I can't because I can't start crying because I will sink completely.” And it cost her too.’ ‘When you leave the hospital maybe there should be a little more psychological help, not for the patient exactly, but for family life, how to face that period that…because for them it is distressing to know that they have been but have not been and many things have happened.’ ‘I had COVID as well and was quite ill at the time as well. While *** was in hospital, I think I was in the testing centre three times to get my oxygen levels checked. Thankfully, I didn’t need to go into hospital. So, the situation was, it was horrific. It’s the worst situation that I have ever been in.’ |
Social support and networks | ‘I was very isolated here. It was very dark here. I was low with a lot of thoughts that I couldn’t express, because I didn’t want to upset other people. It was really something that you don’t want to go through.’ ‘We were getting support from friends and family who were able to bring some shopping to the door. Obviously a lot of people were phoning and asking how *** was. So yeah, that was it. There was no support outwith the immediate family.’ ‘I didn’t feel we had support with *** got out to be perfectly honest. I was on my own. Still folk couldn’t come to the house. We couldn’t see anybody. We were still in lockdown.’ ‘I'm a big believer, I say what my God did to us was the miracle.’ ‘Just to have faith in the hospital.’ |
Differences in lived experience | ‘I mean as he said, he doesn’t remember as being as ill. Do you know what I mean? Whereas I remember every bit of it. He doesn’t remember a lot. He dreams, he remember the dreams.’ ‘“His recollection of everything is that it is alike having a thousand dreams. You don’t know which one is true. He said that is just the way that it felt to me.’ ‘So I was just piecing together, how it happened and I told him what happened, piecing it all together for him… He said he is the lucky one because he doesn’t remember.’ |
Changing relationships and carer burden
‘This affected his mobility, which left him with everything from the waist to the foot as if he were insensitive, affecting his nerves. It has been a long two years and 100% has not been solved.’
‘I think it would have been helpful if someone, at the very least, taught us how to manage someone else's frustration when they're unwell, can't do the things they could do before, or are physically impaired... I think that aspect we would have appreciated it.’
‘It was hard when I was on my own. There was one day I came screaming into the kitchen, screaming into myself… I had to cut his food up. I had to dry him. I had to bathe him. I had to shower him. I had to clothe him… I ran into the kitchen and started silently screaming…there were tears running down my face.’
‘But nothing was like you kept seeing it portrayed on TV. Somebody coming out of the COVID wards and somebody coming and giving them a hug. You know the family were so delighted. That just didn’t happen with us. Because I was told I wasn’t to go near him for two weeks… When he was coming off the ambulance, he said are we allowed to hug? Well they have told us that we have not to. You know, that we have not to go near one another. So this, I said, this seems very awkward and unnatural. You know? But it was what we had been told to do. It just didn’t seem, It wasn’t the way that you were seeing everything on the TV.’
Family health and trauma
‘I have lots of mobility issues, bending down is just impossible. I feel dizzy. I have fairly limited balance. So there are several issues, also recovering from COVID myself… It’s very difficult for me.’
‘I had COVID in the very beginning… I then obviously gave it to [my spouse]… I keep saying, God forbid if something had happened to him, I would I have blamed myself’
‘Psychologically it was very hard, very hard. And then there, well, I fell into depression a little bit, right? After the stress… felt sadder, lower.’
Social support and faith
‘… We were literally on our own, because… we were still in lockdown. So there was nobody who could come to the house. My next door neighbour was dropping in shopping for me, and they were leaving it at the back door for me… Other than that, we didn’t have any help, you know because we were totally on our own.”
‘The situation was stressful. I had to become a dad, mum, worker, friend and everything, because I don’t have family here. At that time my daughter was 8 years old. I have my son the oldest, who was a little older than her. I had to be home, work, attending the hospital…everything. It was stressful.’
‘…have full confidence in the one above, today we are, tomorrow we are not. It’s that clear. Faith moves mountains. I was convinced he was coming back and he came back.’
‘Believe in the NHS. Just keep believing.’
Differences in lived experience
‘ It was a shock, a total shock. Because… he hadn’t been shaved in the neck and just, it made him look older. His hair was longer, he had lost about three stone. He just looked petrified. He had the Zimmer frame. When I got into the car, he’s not an emotional person, he’s not an affectionate person. So when he got into the car, I just broke my heart. I was just sobbing and sobbing and sobbing.’
‘…It must have taken him about half an hour to get him from the ambulance up the stairs. I had to put a chair in the hall as soon as he came in. I had to sit him there and he said, he will need to sit there for a good half an hour before he can move, because he won’t be able to move anywhere, because he was so done in. It was as simple as.’
‘When my husband came home we had to explain everything, how it had been, what had happened during the whole period he was in the ICU… He entered the ICU and then remembers nothing else. There were some brushstrokes left, it seems to me, from when he began to wake up. Then we had to explain everything to him patiently, repeat it. And that was to relive everything and we cried and cried.”