Introduction
Psychosocial Consequences of DV
The Current Study
Methods
Participants’ Profile
Ethics
Quantitative Measures and Procedures
Quantitative Data Analysis
Qualitative Measures and Procedures
Qualitative Data Analysis
Results
Survey Findings
County of work | n | % of sample | Job role* | n | % of sample | ||
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Dublin | 26 | 65.0 | Refuge Worker | 25 | 62.5 | ||
Cork | 4 | 10.0 | Outreach Worker | 10 | 25.0 | ||
Galway | 3 | 7.5 | Court Support Worker | 4 | 10.0 | ||
Wexford | 2 | 5.0 | Child Support Worker | 1 | 2.5 | ||
Kerry | 2 | 5.0 | |||||
Limerick | 2 | 5.0 | |||||
Wicklow | 1 | 2.5 | |||||
Mean score | SD | Median | Range | Min | Max | ||
Years working in DVSs | 3.73 | 5.5 2.08 | 29.5 | 0.5 | 30 |
Survey Item | Survey Answer Frequencies % (n) | Measures of Central Tendencies and Dispersion | |||||||
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A* | M* | H* | R* | N* | Mean | SD | Median | IQR | |
Section: Mental Health | |||||||||
Experience depression | 12.5 (5) | 70 (28) | 12.5 (5) | 5 (2) | 0 (0) | 3.9 | 0.672 | 4 | 0 |
Experience anxiety | 35 (14) | 55 (22) | 10 (4) | 0 (0) | 0 (0) | 4.25 | 0.63 | 4 | 1 |
Experience sleep disturbances | 42.5 (17) | 45 (18) | 7.5 (3) | 5 (2) | 0 (0) | 4.25 | 0.809 | 4 | 1 |
Fatigue/tiredness even after sleep | 22.5 (9) | 62.5 (25) | 12.5 (5) | 2.5 (1) | 0 (0) | 4.05 | 0.677 | 4 | 0 |
Section: Emotional Health | |||||||||
Feel hopeless | 20 (8) | 55 (22) | 15 (6) | 10 (4) | 0 (0) | 3.85 | 0.864 | 4 | 0.75 |
Feel lonely | 17.5 (7) | 47.5 (19) | 27.5 (11) | 7.5 (3) | 0 (0) | 3.75 | 0.84 | 4 | 1 |
Feel grief | 27.5 (11) | 42.5 (17) | 25 (10) | 5 (2) | 0 (0) | 3.93 | 0.859 | 4 | 2 |
Feel isolated emotionally | 7.5 (3) | 60 (24) | 25 (10) | 7.5 (3) | 0 (0) | 3.68 | 0.73 | 4 | 1 |
Feel fear relating to their abuser(s) | 50 (20) | 47.5 (19) | 2.5 (1) | 0 (0) | 0 (0) | 4.47 | 0.554 | 4.5 | 1 |
Feel overwhelmed by their emotions | 20 (8) | 55 (22) | 22.5 (9) | 2.5 (1) | 0 (0) | 3.93 | 0.73 | 4 | 0.75 |
Feel happy, joyful or positive emotions | 2.5 (1) | 10 (4) | 10 (4) | 65 (26) | 12.5 (5) | 3.73 | 0.987 | 4 | 0 |
Feel emotionally supported | 2.5 (1) | 17.5 (7) | 27.5 (11) | 52.5 (21) | 0 (0) | 3.28 | 0.993 | 4 | 1 |
Section: Social/Relational Health | |||||||||
Have friends or family they can turn to | 0 (0) | 7.5 (3) | 27.5 (11) | 65 (26) | 0 (0) | 3.58 | 0.636 | 4 | 2 |
Positive relationship with family of origin | 0 (0) | 0 (0) | 45 (18) | 55 (22) | 0 (0) | 3.55 | 0.504 | 4 | 1 |
DV from past/current romantic partner(s) | 35 (14) | 50 (20) | 2.5 (1) | 12.5 (5) | 0 (0) | 4.08 | 0.944 | 4 | 1 |
Connection to their community/local area | 0 (0) | 5 (2) | 20 (8) | 62.5 (25) | 12.5 (5) | 3.83 | 0.712 | 4 | 0.75 |
Have good supports in their community | 5 (2) | 0 (0) | 10 (4) | 72.5 (29) | 12.5 (5) | 3.83 | 1.01 | 4 | 0 |
Have a hobby/activity | 0 (0) | 0 (0) | 0 (0) | 70 (28) | 30 (12) | 4.3 | 0.464 | 4 | 1 |
Experience social isolation | 2.5 (1) | 57.5 (23) | 12.5 (5) | 27.5 (11) | 0 (0) | 3.35 | 0.921 | 4 | 2 |
Section: Cultural Health | |||||||||
Support from others of similar culture | 0 (0) | 0 (0) | 15 (6) | 72.5 (29) | 12.5 (5) | 3.98 | 0.53 | 4 | 0 |
Section: Parental Needs | |||||||||
Trusted person to mind their child(ren) | 0 (0) | 22.5 (9) | 15 (6) | 62.5 (25) | 0 (0) | 3.4 | 0.841 | 4 | 1 |
Have someone to teach parenting skills | 2.5 (1) | 12.5 (5) | 10 (4) | 57.5 (23) | 17.5 (7) | 3.73 | 1.06 | 4 | 0.75 |
Have someone to provide reassurance | 2.5 (1) | 7.5 (3) | 12.5 (5) | 62.5 (25) | 15 (6) | 3.78 | 0.974 | 4 | 0 |
Feel overwhelmed trying to parent | 5 (2) | 52.5 (21) | 30 (12) | 12.5 (5) | 0 (0) | 3.5 | 0.784 | 4 | 1 |
Have time to look after their own needs | 0 (0) | 10 (4) | 7.5 (3) | 52.5 (21) | 30 (12) | 4.03 | 0.891 | 4 | 1 |
Worry about impact of DV on children | 60 (24) | 22.5 (9) | 17.5 (7) | 0 (0) | 0 (0) | 4.43 | 0.781 | 5 | 1 |
Section: Education and Employment: | |||||||||
DV impacted their work performance | 15 (6) | 37.5 (15) | 30 (12) | 17.5 (7) | 0(0) | 3.5 | 0.961 | 4 | 1 |
Section: Income and Housing: | |||||||||
Have own bank account and safe access | 0 (0) | 10 (4) | 40 (16) | 50 (20) | 0 (0) | 3.4 | 0.672 | 3.5 | 1 |
Have their own income | 0 (0) | 15 (6) | 32.5 (13) | 52.5 (21) | 0 (0) | 3.38 | 0.74 | 4 | 1 |
Have enough income to manage their bills | 0 (0) | 10 (4) | 30 (12) | 50 (20) | 10 (4) | 3.6 | 0.81 | 4 | 1 |
Have enough income to save money | 0 (0) | 0 (0) | 0 (0) | 47.5 (19) | 52.5 (21) | 4.53 | 0.506 | 5 | 1 |
Report stress/worry about their finances | 62.5 (25) | 17.5 (7) | 15 (6) | 5 (2) | 0 (0) | 4.38 | 0.925 | 5 | 1 |
Can return home after legal interventions | 0 (0) | 30 (12) | 15 (6) | 47.5 (19) | 7.5 (3) | 3.33 | 0.997 | 4 | 2 |
Need to seek new housing to escape DV | 10 (4) | 62.5 (25) | 2.5 (1) | 25 (10) | 0 (0) | 3.58 | 0.984 | 4 | 1.75 |
Stayed in DV due to no housing options | 32.5 (13) | 30 (12) | 27.5 (11) | 10 (4) | 0 (0) | 3.85 | 1.01 | 4 | 2 |
For clients in refuge please rank from 1 (most common) to 5 (least common) the type of accommodation they exit to | Survey Answer Frequencies % (n) | ||||||||
1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 | Mean | SD | Median | IQR | |
Homeless Services/Accommodation | 67.5 (27) | 17.5 (7) | 0 (0) | 5 (2) | 10 (4) | 4.25 | 1.39 | 5 | 1 |
Return Home without Abuser(s) Present | 0 (0) | 15 (6) | 7.5 (3) | 52.5 (21) | 25 (10) | 2.03 | 1.15 | 4 | 0.75 |
Interview Findings
Theme 1: Institutional Responses
“The trouble with PTSD is their memory is fragmented, so they might not remember everything in one order….so it really does impact on their ability when they attend court. Their senses get overwhelmed, they completely shut down. I’d a lady last week, she just lost what she was saying on the stand, couldn’t remember anything, so she looked like a really bad witness. Like she was telling the truth, but it’s just that her post traumatic stress is shutting her brain down.” - P5.“We’d offer to sit in with the ladies when they’re giving a statement [to police], and I’ve had to jump in on a good few, asking the [police officer] to stop interrupting her, to give her a few seconds to answer, let her get a tissue cause she’s sobbing her eyes out telling you the most horrific experiences of her life and you’re shouting at her; it’s why it’s our practice to offer to sit in, cause I wish I could tell you that was a rare occurrence.” - P2.
“The worst damage I see to my clients in relation to their children is what the court system does. The court system’s inability to put the children’s interest first, but unfortunately, they don’t. They put fathers’ interest first…. what [clients] are not able for is the court system ripping the children out and sending them to the abuser when the children don’t want to go on overnight access.” - P5.“I can’t remember the figures, but I think something like 80% of the courts in district court are to do with domestic violence cases. So even if they’re turning up just for access or whatever, there’s often been abuse in the past. I think there’s a huge fear in how it’s impacting the children, how it has impacted. And then that continued exposure. Again, ‘How do I mitigate against that?’.” - P6.
“You can’t be questioning the meaning of life when you’re worried that you’re going to get beaten tonight, you just don’t have that space. And so, I think with refuge, you have that distance.” - P1.“We can sometimes see the same women back more than once, be it she went back to the same abuser, or he came after her, he’s disregarding the order, or it’s a new DV relationship; but the fact that she knows we’re here if she needs us, however many times she needs us; sometimes people aren’t ready to do the deep trauma work the first time, but maybe on the second they will, they know here is safe and they’ll be supported.”, - P2.
“And realistically, ‘we have nowhere else to put you after the refuge other than to refer you to homeless.’ Like again, how could you not continue to feel anxious? Continue to worry what the future looks like for you and your children and continue to not feel able to relax?…. I think just even the next step from refuge being so up in the air, that wouldn’t help.” - P1.“I definitely think I’d like to see more transitional housing, so moving away from- I think refuges will always have a place in need- but more transitional houses because it allows them a space to decompress, to stabilize. I think that aids their recovery.” - P6.
“I would like to see court report experts, the psychologists and social workers that write these reports. They need to be trained, and it needs to be accredited. At the minute they’re absolutely not. Training is absent from a domestic violence professional. It’s absolutely crucial…. Anyone that comes in contact, because they’re missing the abuse, they might say that “she has a drink problem”, but they are missing the abuse.” - P5.“Like, thankfully, there’s now decent [police officers] and you’re hearing better stories. But you’re still hearing some atrocious stories of [police officers] giving women wrong information, sending them back to situations that are dangerous and not being believed. Because you kind of think, ‘God, well done for going’ and then sure ‘Jesus, she won’t be going there again!’ you know? And it’s just a missed opportunity.” - P1.
Theme 2: Structural Entrapments
“When a woman leaves her abuse, she’s also missing another piece of income there to support her children. So that’s gone. And then she’s trying to manage everything on her own. Financial pressure is such a stressful thing for the women. Having to constantly look at the price of things and go for something cheaper, say no to your kids. You know, it has a knock-on effect, which equally destroys your mental health as well.” - P4.“What I do see with a lot of our clients is that they’re working in low paid jobs, part time, to make ends meet, and they’re on social welfare, which then puts them over the limit for legal aid. So then, when they’re going to a divorce case, they’re having to pay their lawyers. And then if they get brought back to court 20 times, all their money is gone. This is financial abuse through the legal system.” - P5.
“So, to have the immediate foundation needs met; housing and finance. The vast majority of women are having to enter poverty, and that is a huge, huge cost.” - P6.“That’s trapping women in poverty. That’s making them go back into the social welfare system rather than working. We have managed to get, through the HAP 1scheme, some into housing. But their rents are way above the housing limits for HAP and so they’re having to pay the extra money out themselves. So again, it’s another poverty trap.” - P5
“I’ve been here six years. There isn’t a client that housing and finance are not at the absolute forefront in terms of their plan to try and get away from their abuse.” - P6.“’e might be able to give you HAP, but you’re going to have to wait for 12 months, to go on the Council housing list again because you’re making yourself homeless.’ Yeah. They’re ‘making themselves homeless’ by leaving a DV situation. They’re penalized for 12 months for that.” - P1.“They have to present to the County Council, and if they’re not entitled to housing supports because their name is on a house, then they’re told ‘your option is to get a safety order and go home’.” - P3.
“It’s a brutal situation where you are saying to somebody ‘your options are going home - hopefully, maybe - with an order or going to homeless accommodation’ because, honestly, there is so little options. Why would you not go home to the abuse that you know, rather than walk into that?” - P1.“So again, it’s another poverty trap. But if they don’t do that, they have nowhere for their kids to stay. Then they lose custody……. I have clients that should have custody of their children. The children are living with the abuser because she has nowhere to take the children.” - P5.“Very difficult because a lot of women tend to return for that reason, feeling like they can’t cope, they can’t do it on their own, and a lot of them tend to go back….We can’t get them housed, so unfortunately, they’re going back to the abuse because they want to keep their kids safe. And although we know it’s not safe, but they’re thinking safety, as in basic needs of housing, water, food.” - P4.
“…Like there was options. There was, you know, you got your HAP and you searched and searched, and you got a private rental. And there was ways out, and it was great as staff even, as well as obviously the ladies, because it was like, ‘Oh, great. It only took 129 days for her to change her life. 129 days in refuge for her to move away from the abuse and not have to go back’.” - P1.“Some of them got moved into social housing, into new houses and they were doing so much better than the women who ended up still homeless after that, or back with families, living on couches and sharing rooms. You can just see with a woman, what safety and security does.” - P3.
“County Council wise, I think there maybe should be a specialized domestic abuse liaison officer that deals with us, any of the housing queries that relate to DV, that prioritization is actually given, that if there’s a need for transfers, that is completed, because that’s such a major issue we have.” - P6.“DV rent supplement, which is an emergency payment for three months; it all sounds well and good. But I tried to refer a woman, and she did find a place to live and she’s 67 weeks now into an apartment; that payment still hasn’t come through. And this is meant to be an emergency payment.” - P3.“It is so frustrating when you have a woman, possibly children too, going to a homeless service, their lives turned upside down, and a perpetrator is living in a 3-bedroom house on his own…you’re seeing County Councils not evicting or barring convicted abusers, and then having the gall to penalize women who surrender or take their name off of a social house…It needs to change.” - P2.
Theme 3: Social Connections
“If they’ve been isolated in their abuse, the majority of their life, they know no difference. So, it’s hard to then just turn into a social butterfly, it takes time, and it’s a journey.” - P4.“There can be shame keeping them from telling their family or friends. But it can also be another survival strategy….sometimes the woman is so afraid and is just trying to live minute-to-minute, she’s not thinking of the love or help her friends can offer.” - P2.“So many women’s worlds can become very small, often not allowed to talk to friends for years. This lack of social connections makes their world so small, lonely; they’ve no support around them.” - P1.
“Families can really go both ways, to the extreme. You’ve families where there was– or still is– DV, or even that don’t but encourage women to go back, in the name of ‘keeping the family together’. But I’ve also seen families be phenomenal supports for the women, you can see the difference.” - P2.“That’s very often the deciding factor between who becomes a [refuge] resident, or ends up in homeless services, and who stays as a long-term client, is the family support, that is a very determining factor.” - P3.
“There are so many women who are literally on their own in the country…for people who are coming in, who have nobody, have no clue, don’t have the language, don’t have any access to money, who are absolutely terrified. They’ve been told ‘you won’t survive without me’. Like they can really believe it because they have nobody else. They don’t know that all these supports are out there.” - P1.“Especially with my non-national clients. They cannot communicate, so they’re afraid of their own solicitors. They don’t understand what’s happening…. She often doesn’t know what’s going on. She’s just terrified and so that produces really bad outcomes for these women and their children.” - P5.
“If you’ve got trauma and then you’ve got somebody who can’t speak English, it’s nearly like it’s trapped…Again, just even language, it’s so hard when you see somebody, and they’re upset and you can’t comfort them. You can comfort them a little bit, but not the same way as properly connecting, communicating the hurt that they’re feeling.” - P1.“My heart goes out to the ladies who can’t speak English, or who can a bit but trauma or emotions just shuts down that ability. You see that raw pain, emotions are a universal language…I think the gist of it gets across, but you’re never 100% connected; and that connection is so important when you’re working with trauma.”- P2.
“I would like to see - and that we don’t have - is support groups for the women. I do a lot of 1-to-1 work, but I actually really think we need more support groups for them to say, ‘It’s not just me’.” - P3.“They do need more peer support. They need more opportunities to mix with each other and meet, meet with each other. It’s just that everything is so pressed; time, money, everything. That these sorts of programs kind of get pushed sideways.” - P5.
Theme 4: Emotional and Mental Experiences
“You’ve not just gone through abuse. You’ve also lost- I think what people seem to forget is you’ve lost your husband or your partner who you actually love very much. So, you’re trying to deal with the actual heartbreak of losing somebody.” - P4.“Sometimes you get a lot of grief as well as another emotion that I deal with, even if they come out with a divorce they wanted. And they got everything they wanted. There’s a loss, a sense of grief and that their life hasn’t worked as they wanted, or the children are affected. Or I see a lot of that kind of guilt and grief, especially around the children.” - P5.
“She has to be the mammy, she’s got to put the face on, to make the dinner. She’s got to do everything you have to do, and so she’s only able to fall apart when the kids go to sleep.” - P1.“Yeah, the mam guilt is definitely there. You know, sometimes they look at the kids and they just break down because they feel awful. And that’s them being so hard on themselves, as the mothers do.” - P4.“There is a difference for women with kids; when it’s just them and they leave [the relationship], they can look at processing trauma, they can look at releasing everything that was held in while they were in survival mode. But when kids are involved, she will always be connected to him, so instead of releasing those emotions, they can be triggered every time she’s contacted by him.” - P2.
“One of the barriers that a lot of my clients have faced is that it is used against them in the legal system. That it is used as an excuse for that woman, maybe to be labelled as an unfit mother. It can be used very often as a defense against domestic violence…many occasions where a woman’s mental health history has been brought to the court to use in access and safety order hearings.” - P3.“The biggest threat that you can ever say to a mammy is ‘I’ll ring [Child Protection Services]. I’ll get custody of him. He’ll be taken off you. You’re mad. You’re on antidepressants. Nobody’s gonna believe you’.” - P1.“A lot of my clients as well are worried if they speak to a GP that it will be used against them in court that, if they seek help, because a very common form of threat and coercion, I’d say in most of my cases, would be around saying that the mam is mentally unwell.” - P5.
“The doctors will just throw the tablets, some anti-depressants. I feel like interventions is what’s needed. More groups, more supports for women, more active supports.”- P4.“Well, I’m not a big, huge believer in medication, but I sometimes think it does have its place. If a woman is really, really struggling to function, I think it does have its place sometimes, medication. But it should always be done alongside that talking therapy as well.” - P1.
“I’m not against medication, but I do see this as a way of misdiagnosing the ladies; only looking at the depression and ignoring all the impacts of trauma on her mind and body; labelling her based on the medication she’s being prescribed and not what’s actually going on for her.” - P2.“You get the anxiety, you get depression, substance abuse. So that would be the main thing when I see a client, it’s all post-traumatic stress.” - P5.“Their mind has gone through a severe amount of trauma. To the point that sometimes women make unhealthy choices and go down on the wrong road. Sometimes they turn to substance abuse.” - P4.
Theme 5: Trauma Longevity
“Where just because they’ve left the abuser, the abuser hasn’t left their head, so very often they will still continue to hear exactly what he would say.” - P1.“That longitudinal experience of domestic abuse, it never ends it, it affects in different ways. It has residual impacts both on mam and the kids, and then dynamics within the family then as a unit.” - P6.
“It’s like taking two steps forward and 55,000 steps back because they come in and we give them hope. We help them flee their domestic abuse, help them get on the right track. And then, unfortunately, with the housing crisis the way it is at the moment we have no options sometimes, and their only option is to move them to homeless. And it’s just such an anti-climax and devastation to a woman and to a mother, to have to go into homeless.” - P4.“You’re telling someone who’s already lost themselves in an abusive relationship, to give up everything else they have. Give up your home, your possessions, say goodbye to everything you knew, any scrap of social support you had….the losses they experience are never ending.” - P2.
“But it’s when they come out of survival mode and they’re in the court system and their children are being sent off to access that is unsafe, you know? It’s absolutely terrifying. Yeah, I think that’s more the impact on mothering, as a direct result of insensitive and untrained court system.”> - P5.“And then there’s drug abuse and alcohol abuse, and also domestic violence in homeless services as well. So, it’s really triggering for the woman, she’s re-traumatized.” - P4.“It can take so much to build a woman back up such effort from her, from her supports; and one bad interaction with a [police officer] or judge can send her miles backwards. She feels she’s back in it.”– P2.
“It’s not a straight road. It’s up and down. And it takes a long, long time to get to an even keel, because a woman is trying to deal with everything.” - P4.“You can’t think about your recovery if your housing is not secure, you can’t think of anything else. You’re in fight or flight mode at all times, haven’t got your basic needs met, can’t think about healing from the past.” - P3.
“I tell clients; ‘you have to fight to hold on and fight to let go. And it’s not a race or a sprint. It will be a marathon, but we’ll be with you along the way’.” - P6.“It’s really about meeting the woman where she is at in her journey; you can’t force someone to process emotions, and you can’t do it for them. It’s a mixture of having the right external resources, the housing, the safety, the security, the physical needs, and also the internal resources, her inner emotional world, her inner strength; a lot of things need investment for her recovery.” - P2.“I think our work, particularly post separation, is contextualizing their experience of domestic abuse in terms of the survival strategies they’ve used, and whether they’re still serving them as much anymore, introducing the idea of choice and control that they didn’t have before.” - P6.