In the following we present the analyses of the focus groups’ discussions.
The Various Missions of Schools, and Living with Domestic Violence
Professionals within schools expressed uncertainty about their role and responsibility towards children living with violence in the private domain outside of school. All focus group participants stated that the issue of domestic violence is not responded to as a matter of practice and that they never or seldom have discussed the problem within the framework of school. The participants were therefore challenged during the focus groups to reveal how they think and act when meeting pupils who are living with this form of child abuse. The discussion among participating professionals about the mission and responsibility of the school, both when identifying violence and when managing the children’s needs for care, protection and support, appeared to vacillate between different forms of responsibility. The focus groups also discussed whether the issue of domestic violence is included within the mission (pedagogic and/or psychosocial) of the school or not.
The Psychosocial Mission of Schools
The focus group of school counsellors also considered that the mission of removing obstacles to learning is a very important part of the work in schools. They believed, thus, that the pedagogic mission is to form the centre of the school. At the same time, participating school counsellors did not accept without question, the idea that the school is to be seen solely as an institution for learning and the achievement of learning objectives. They expressed the belief that that the school has also a social responsibility, and must for this reason be allowed to be an arena in which psychosocial activity can be conducted. They also however, considered, an equally important part of the mission of the school to protect and support pupils who have lived with maltreatment. They claimed that, since children and young people live a large part of their lives in school, that the social work must also take place in school. According to the participating counsellors, it is not sufficient that the children receive treatment within the CPS one or a few times a week: the school must also possess an ability to deal with this and provide support. As one school counsellor asserted: “The most important mission of school is to create relationships, everyone must do this”. This counsellor, thus, believes that social work that is based on this issue must be allowed to take place, since “It gives the children security”.
All focus group discussions argued that individual pupils who live in families in where domestic violence occurs, find it difficult to fit into the school mission. However, the focus on the learning objectives in school seems to results in that the social problems of an individual pupil cannot be given priority from either a teacher’s perspective or from the perspective of the members of the SHT.
Furthermore, the participating teachers described how the personnel of the SHT no longer have sufficient time to support them in their everyday work, since the work of these personnel has changed. Previously, they said, their mission was to work with individual pupils, whereas now it is to work with matters that concern the school in its entirety. One teacher stated that “they don’t have time to work directly with individuals”. The focus groups with personnel from SHT agreed with this. The school psychologists highlighted the major change in how their mission is formulated, and stated that there had been “a paradigm shift, with new formulations in the current Education Act and curricula. There is less focus on the individual and diagnosis, and more consideration of learning psychology and the learning environment.” They stated that they experienced this as a challenge, since it meant that school psychologists must find a balance between work that is directed towards the school in its entirety and work at the level of the individual. They therefore, see a serious risk, if psychologists are not able to work with individual children. The children become invisible “and, well, it’s obvious if no-one else sees them, and we no longer can, they will never receive the help they need”. This was a concern expressed by all group participants: strategic measures within preventative and health-promoting initiatives at a more structural level therefore risk taking place at the expense of work with the social problems of individual children.
School psychologist: They [the teachers] focus too much on setting a diagnosis, even though we say that it is the pupil’s needs that determine the adaptations and support that they need in school. Even so, they can still say ‘Well, we’ve done all we can so now we should refer the pupil [to a psychologist]. We’ve done our best.’ This thing that they put a lot of responsibility onto the pupil instead of onto themselves. It is this that is dangerous.
As reflected in the above quote, the school psychologists asserted that it is the teachers who are most eager that the pupil be examined, and that the children be given a diagnosis. The readiness to place a diagnosis can be seen also in cases where it is previously known that violence occurs in the home, such as, for example, pupils who live under protected identity (hidden from one parent) with one parent. One school counsellor stated:
We know that they come from families in which the parent has been the object of violence. I would say that there’s so much that concerns violence, and that it’s really important to remind the teachers that when they come to our school health team that we’re dealing with the symptoms, /…/ it’s so easy to decide that the children should be examined.
In this excerpt the counsellor points at the phenomenon that the teachers mostly focus on the symptoms rather than its underlying reason. A school psychologist who at the time of the interview, was working in the social services with the follow up of school results, reflected about her previous failure to understand how common violence in the home is, as she explains in this next quote: “I couldn’t imagine how common it is. It happens all the time”. Nor, as the next quote illustrates, had she been able to see the coupling with the children’s learning difficulties.
I can see this now, when I follow the same children. You see, I go back and read about them and see how ideas about them have changed through the years, how the child health service has suggested autism, and so you consider ADHD and the child is placed with a foster family, and then suddenly the child’s abilities become excellent, s/he starts to cope with language, and you have to start excluding one diagnosis after another.
Here the psychologist points out that the professionals, and particularly the teachers, want the problem to lie with the pupil, instead of putting the focus on the family and learning situations. This is associated with the fact that resources are coupled with diagnosis, but in the case of children facing problems with maltreatment, the question of whether the problem lies with the children becomes interesting in other ways. Participating professional asserted that there was insufficient knowledge about how this form of child abuse can be identified, and about the ways available to the school to deal with the needs of the pupils. They claimed that the symptoms and behaviour of the pupils are rather interpreted based on a frame of reference that is familiar to the professionals. The participants asserted that the social mission takes second place to the psychological and pedagogic mission, and measures are taken to remove obstacles to learning and gaining knowledge, targeted on the individual pupil. The focus groups with professionals from the SHT, and those with social workers from the CPS, stated that it is the teachers who principally push the idea of examining the pupils, or discuss other problems that move the focus from the teachers’ own responsibilities. The teachers, in response, pointed out that it is difficult for them to carry out the pedagogic mission if they do not receive the support and help from the SHT and CPS to which they are entitled. At the same time, the focus groups argued that the distribution of responsibility is unclear, and it is unclear which mission forms the basis for action. They suggested that this applies not only to all school organizations, but also the school system in its entirety. It could therefore be argued that the way in which the professionals understand the mission of the school can have consequences for how they act in relation to children living with domestic violence.
The Professionals’ Different and Blurred Understandings of the Phenomenon of Living with Domestic Violence
The findings from the focus groups identified that the professionals in schools (except school counsellors) are not very familiar with discussing and handling children living with domestic violence. This was also true, to a certain extent, for the CPS social workers. In all the focus groups, the informants expressed on an intellectual level a clear opinion of what is meant. When the facilitator asked the participants at the beginning of each focus group discussion to explain how they understand the phenomenon “children living with domestic violence”, all participants expressed themselves in the same way: It is a case of a child seeing, hearing and witnessing someone being abused in the family. They described it as a form of child abuse. They also stated that they were aware that domestic violence is a severe problem in many families. Despite that knowledge and standpoint, however, they feel that there appeared to be a gap between theory and practice – how to respond to this problem in schools. When the facilitator posed the question directly whether living with domestic violence is child abuse, only the school counsellors clearly responded affirmatively. One school counsellor stated that “to live under the circumstances of latent violence is to be abused”. Another counsellor stated “They don’t get hit, but they live with this horror/.../. To be a witness, I think it is the same. It is as scary as being exposed yourself. /.../ It is psychological abuse.”
However, in focus groups with other school professionals, only some individuals initially expressed themselves in the same (or similar) way as the school counsellors. These professionals stated clearly that living with domestic violence is child abuse. The discussions on this theme were otherwise characterised by vacillation and insecurity about how to understand living with domestic violence. In general, the participants confronted each other with different understandings and explanations of how this problem can be seen and acknowledged.
School nurse 1: It is not the girl. It is the parents who have problems between them, so it is another situation.
Facilitator: You don’t think she is exposed to child abuse?
School nurse 1: No, I don’t think so.
School nurse 2: The girl?
School nurse 3: Not physically, she isn’t beaten.
Then the fourth nurse said: “But it is a kind of abuse, to see and experience child abuse, it is,” and explained that she thinks it is psychological child abuse. This part of the discussion ended with all agreeing that a girl who witnesses her parents’ violence is affected by child abuse, and that it is “serious that she has been witnessing violence”. The participants took different standpoints, gave different answers, and/or reflected differently on the issue. In some cases, the response was rapid, without reflection, while in other cases it was more considered. Professionals in all focus groups, except for school counsellors, seemed to need to elaborate and present different versions of what can be thought and said about this problem.
A significant finding of the work presented here is that child abuse is understood to be synonymous with physical abuse. One teacher used the term “real violence” when she compared different forms of problems that a child may be affected by in a family context. In the focus groups, the professionals were asked to talk about their own experiences of students affected by living with domestic violence. Very often, they started to give examples of children who had been physically abused. A school nurse recalled: “I remember that I met a girl or siblings whose father hit them very hard. He grabbed their arms very violently and their faces and so on. I define that as violence. In this case we made a report.” In this quotation, the school nurse, when asked about witnessing the parents’ violence against each other, gave an example of a child who had been directly physically abused. This pattern led the facilitator to confront the focus group with a direct question at the end of the focus group: Are being physically abused and witnessing another being physically abused equal?
Teacher A: Is it the same? [living with domestic violence and experiencing physical abuse].
Facilitator: Do you think that?
Teacher B: I can think that. But, it is two different things. I think that you can suffer in the
same way. I think it should be correct to consider it as the same.
Facilitator: Do you think, if you are honest, that you would react in the same way [if you
became aware of it]?
Teacher B: No.
Teacher A: No.
Teacher B: I think it is much worse to be beaten than to witness.
Teacher A: Yes.
During the discussion, it appeared that the participants were uncertain and reluctant to take a stand on the issue. Teacher B first answered that she thinks that is the same but then, in the same sequence, said that it is different. The quotation shows that they thought that it is much worse to be beaten than to witness domestic violence. This kind of discussion was typical for their talk: even though the participants considered living with violence to be serious and were aware that the children suffer, they found it difficult to equate the seriousness or to talk about it in terms of child abuse.
In some of the focus groups (school counsellors, CPS social workers and school psychologists), the participants stated that it is important to understand that children who live with domestic violence live under threat and in constant fear. CPS social workers stated that living with domestic violence is a broad concept and that the situation may be complex. This may contribute to their uncertainty. The CPS social workers found it difficult to define the difference between quarrel and violence. There appeared to be no clear guidelines on when the CPS should act and start an investigation into the family.
It wasn’t surprising that the school counsellors and CPS social workers were presented as more secure in their understanding, knowledge and expressions about this form of abuse. This form of knowledge about social problems is a part of their education and often a part of practical training. However, in the focus groups with the CPS social workers, they expressed themselves differently from members of school counsellor groups. The social workers from the CPS avoided the concepts of “living with domestic violence” and “child abuse”. The CPS social workers first reacted with silence when asked whether living with domestic violence is equal to child abuse, and they did not use the concept “child abuse” at any time during the focus groups. Instead they used the concepts “victim of crime” and “victim”, when they talked about children living with domestic violence.
Taking Action and Filing (or Not) an Expression of Concern – The Symbol of School Reaction
The findings so far have illustrated that ideas about the mission of the school with respect to domestic violence vary. What was unquestioned, however, was the responsibility of the school to file an expression of concern with the CPS when it suspects that a child is at risk. Independently of whether the mission of the school was described as principally pedagogic or psychosocial, it was generally agreed that legislation and policy guidance must be followed. However, the participants expressed that they felt that it was not equally clear how this is to be carried out in practice, and who has the responsibility to act. The various groups of professionals disagreed about this. One focus group of school nurses emphasised that it must be the teacher who takes the principal responsibility, while the SHT may provide assistance in this.
School nurse 1: The right person or the right profession must own the case, they must be in charge to start with, that’s what I think.
Facilitator: So who owns the case?
School nurse 1: In the beginning, I do/.../There’s to be communication between, it depends on how serious it is, but the teacher-pupil-parent or guardian. I can’t see any other way to do it
All group members: Yes.
School nurse 2: But as soon as they take it up with the school nurse or pass the case to the school health teams, it belongs to someone else.
School nurse 3: Our case, together.
School nurse 1: Quite right.
School nurse 2: But I think it’s very important /.../that the teacher remains involved, because if they are not, they let the matter drop completely and think: ‘Now she’s looking after it, and I don’t have to worry about it.’ [All group members: murmur agreement]. But you have to remember that the teacher is the person that the pupil has most contact with.
This discussion between the school nurses demonstrates a pattern that was evident across all focus groups in all focus groups with members who were part of the SHT. These professionals stated that it is not the SHT that in the first place “owns the case”: they consider that the responsibility and the work of filing an expression of concern lies with the teachers, who are the ones who know the pupil. Professionals in the SHT suggested that teachers are not eager to take responsibility, but wanted the pupil’s case to be handled within the framework of the SHT.
In the focus groups of teachers, however, it became clear that teachers considered it obvious that cases dealing with these difficult issues must be handled by professionals who have training and expertise, i.e. the SHT. From their standpoint, teachers were critical that they do not receive sufficient support from those who they consider to have the principal responsibility in these matters, i.e. the management and the SHT. They stated that they also experienced it as unclear within the organisation, how these questions should be managed. This opinion was shared by all professionals, independently of which school or municipality they were working in. They stated that it is unclear what happens in such cases within the school: for example, what happens when a teacher has informed someone in the SHT or school principal about his or her concerns. One teacher, however, explained that she had not herself enquired whether an expression of concern had been filed with the CPS or if any other measure had been taken after she passed information to the SHT. The teacher justified the decision not to follow up on what had happened for the pupil by stating that she no longer had responsibility. The teacher did not know who now had overall responsibility for the pupil, nor why she had not received any further information. Such narratives – that there are uncertainties concerning the procedures associated with cases and expressions of concern – emerged in all focus groups with several scenarios of the routines around filing expressions of concern and how the distribution of responsibility is carried out in different schools, described. One of the school counsellors outlined how in her school the teacher must file an expression of concern if it is suspected that children are living with domestic violence, because “It would just be weird” if she filed an expression of concern without even having met the child. She believed that it is the teacher who has knowledge about the child and the situation, and who has seen, heard and “knows the child properly”. In another school, it was asserted that it is usually the school counsellor that files expressions of concern together with the teacher. She stated: “We usually do it, together with the teachers. It’s terribly distressing for them. They think it’s really unpleasant. And it’s their name that is given in the text, but I’m responsible for filing the expression of concern”. In a third school, the school counsellor was described as responsible for the complete process. The school counsellor stated that they found the process of collecting and evaluating (information), and writing the expression of concern, particularly difficult when it concerns violence. In the following extract, the school counsellor described the process, and talked about the challenges that arise when the school counsellor takes over a case from the teacher.
School counsellor 2: But this whole thing with violence is not that easy. It’s a case of collecting facts that you can pass on in some way and that are credible when you file the expression of concern.
Facilitator: So how do you manage this?
School counsellor 3: Situations, concrete situations.
School counsellor 2: Yes. And writing things down. And really checking things with several other people. Not just one, maybe, but checking in more detail that it’s true, this, what’s going on. Because you may not have any relationship at all with the child in question, but you just get him or her passed to you. /.../
School counsellor 1: I feel that I really want to be on firm ground here.
The counsellors stated that they found it problematic when they lack knowledge and a relationship with the child. All school counsellors in the focus groups stated that they have, at one time or another taken over a case from another member of the school personnel. The school counsellor may have received the task at an SHT meeting, but it was most common that a teacher approached the counsellor directly and asked for help. As such, it was considered it to be difficult to take over somebody else’s case and to receive information only at second hand. The school counsellors, however, emphasised that they are aware of the importance that background information is available for social services to consider when an expression of concern is filed. The school counsellors however, wanted to be “on firm ground”, and wanted to avoid filing an ungrounded expression of concern.
The CPS social workers considered it to be part of the school’s mission and responsibility to work with the CPS to identify problems, and then pass the case onwards by filing an expression of concern. They considered the role of the school to be important, because – even though it concerns the situation in the home and during the children’s leisure time – it is in school that the children can be found. They pointed out that is the professionals who work in the school, therefore, who have the best opportunities to identify problems with domestic violence. They consider it to be the task of these professionals, if they have any suspicions, to report the pupil to the CPS. Participating social services professionals however, stated that few expressions of concern are filed from schools, that this is particularly the case when it comes to living with domestic violence. It is their expressed experience that most expressions of concern filed with the CPS come from school principals, and they considered this to be an unsatisfactory situation. It was their opinion that teachers should be responsible for filing the expressions of concern because it is the teachers who have the information and meet the child.
At the same time, they stated that the teachers had a certain understanding that filing an expression of concern may involve conflicts with the parents, which may damage the relationship with the pupil. What they could not understand, however, were situations where no-one among the school personnel expresses concerns to social services. They stated that the school often justifies this by saying that the CPS won’t do anything anyway, and there are high expectations on what the CPS can achieve. One social worker stated: “When you reach this stage, it’s almost as if you have to wonder: What can we do for these families?”
Unclear, Ambiguous Messages from the CPS
The focus groups with social workers who worked within the CPS pointed out how important it is to receive high-quality information as background to an expression of concern. They made it clear, however, that this information may serve another purpose to a certain degree, namely that of enabling investigations in the case to continue. During the focus group discussion with the CPS social workers, however, the members vacillated between two points of view concerning the role of the school when it is suspected that the situation in a pupil’s home is unsatisfactory. 1) Initially, the members made it clear that the school itself cannot reach a conclusion about the exposure of the child. 2) As the focus group discussion progressed, the members stated that the school “should try to get more information about” the family situation of the pupil. On the basis of the first point of view, they argued that it is not the school that is to determine whether the pupil is living with domestic violence. One CPS social worker expressed it: “I think that if you have the slightest suspicion that it (
domestic violence) is taking place, you must file an expression of concern”. They felt that it is the CPS who determine the borderline between family violence and what they call “normal family conflicts”. In their view, it is the task of the CPS to determine “what type of violence” is going on in the home. The members of the focus group pointed out that the cases are often very complex and difficult to assess, and many different factors must be considered. They agreed that violence that is repeated and is present in the home consistently demands a response from them. On the other hand, it was not obvious to them that the CPS are responsible for getting involved when it is a case of more minor conflicts or fighting that consists of one or a few serious events. This is where the CPS social workers started to change their view, since they considered at the same time that it is the school that is to determine which type of conflict is being experienced, before an expression of concern is filed at the CPS. As the focus group progressed, the CPS social workers based their arguments to an ever-increasing degree on the point of view that the school personnel must gain information about the exposure of the child, which de facto means that it is the school professionals who assess whether the pupil is living with domestic violence or not. The CPS social workers asserted that they usually recommend that the school personnel “talk more to the child” and with the parents, because there must be “a history” or other documentation to enable the CPS to subsequently undertake a child protection investigation. A CPS social worker stated that if it is the teacher who suspects that something has happened in the family, it is best that someone in the school whom the child trusts talks with the child in order to “make some form of assessment,” to gain confirmation and avoid mistakes. Another social workers asserted:
I’m sure that it would be possible to prevent many expressions of concern if you could have a dialogue with the parents.
All group members: Yes.
CPS social worker: You assume things, many of which are not true. I imagine a situation in which the school sees something that causes it to react, but they don’t have the full story and then maybe they overreact and they’re concerned: ‘Well, let’s file an expression of concern’, instead of establishing a dialogue. There may be perfectly natural explanations for things that are not grounds for filing an expression of concern [all group members murmur in agreement], and I’m seeing that you can also spare both the parents and the child from getting involved with us [gentle laughter].
In this excerpt the social workers argue that the school has a responsibility to make a well-grounded assessment before they contact the CPS. The social workers at the CPS also made the point that the school’s responsibility remains, even if the CPS takes no action when the first expression of concern is filed. New expressions of concern can contribute to more information, and this may lead to new decisions being taken.
These Children Are Sitting in the Classrooms – The Need to Act
Emerging with clarity from the analysis of the focus group discussions, was the commitment of the participating professionals to respond to the needs of the children in their classroom, independently of the involvement of the CPS and their lack of faith in the CPS. What the teachers experienced as difficult was to set a limit for what is included in their professional task and what is to be passed on to the SHT, but, as one teacher put it: “Is it better that I do something? I don’t know.” The teachers used expressions such as to “have a responsibility as an adult”, and they expressed the belief that they have a responsibility in their professional role to “be there for the children, to stand as a form of stability/adult presence”. They were also clear, however, that as teachers they should not be “the one who drives the process forwards”. The teachers also believed, however, as did school nurses, that it is the school counsellors who have best knowledge on how to support these children in school through counselling.
School nurse 2: Right – it’s not our job.
School nurse 1: The school counsellor should have those talks – not us./---/Of course, we talk to the children all the time, with the pupils, but the counsellor should be the one to hold regular consultations, check how the week has been, check what’s happening next week.
In this excerpt above the nurses point at the need for regular consultations and support from the counsellors. The school counsellors also expressed the belief that children facing these issues require a great deal of support, and that their task is to support and understand the children’s situation.
The professionals described that they have room for manoeuvre, which they use in different ways. There are, however, points of contact that all professions seem to have in common. In practice, the professionals argued that they act more on the basis of what they themselves say is a feeling, than from expertise and knowledge about domestic violence.
One factor that the professionals regarded as particularly difficult when working with these issues, and that can be seen as an obstacle to collaboration, is the question of confidentiality. One teacher said:
As teacher, I don’t have to know everything, but I should be told what I need to know such that I can deal with this child in day-to-day life, because I’m the one who does so!
So, yes, it’s a real pain if you don’t know anything or feel that way, because then you feel really compromised when things happen because then it’s like: “I should be able to deal with the case but I can’t, because I don’t know”.
All participating teachers highlighted the importance of removing some parts of the limits to confidentiality in order to be able to help the children. Only a few of the participants were aware that of them knew that parents can, when requested, allow school personnel to be given access to confidential material. When the focus group of CPS social workers was asked how often the members ask parents whether the confidentiality can be lifted in order to let the school know what is happening at the social services, the replies differed. Some of them expressed that they always have referral meetings, in which the institutions involved join together to draw up an individual plan for the child. Other CPS social workers stated that they never use the possibility of breaching confidentiality, since the school does not request this.
However, a certain room for manoeuvre seemed to be available, both concerning how much the schools’ professionals have a right to know, and concerning the possibility of breaching confidentiality between government agencies with the consent of the parents. How this room for manoeuvre is used in practice differs: it is clear that certain social workers do not view confidentiality as an obstacle, and that they use the opportunities that the legislation provides. It is also clear that the individual social worker determines to a large extent the conditions under which the case proceeds, and in this way determines the degree of collaboration.