The 12-Step Pathway to Well-Being
The purpose of this study was to examine the mechanisms underlying the relationship between the number of 12 steps completed and well-being and to test the role of spiritual growth and gratitude in these relationships. Partially consistent with H1, the number of 12 steps completed was inversely related to negative affect but was not related to either life satisfaction or to positive affect. This result may suggest that the 12-step program directly helps the SA members decrease the intensity of negative feelings. The explanation of this result may lie in the content of the 12-step program for addictions, in which the need to let go of resentment, bitterness and grudges for recovery is emphasized (AA,
2001; SA,
1989). In accordance with H2, the number of steps completed was positively related to spiritual growth, suggesting that with the completion of steps, SA members start to experience spirituality in everyday situations.
Although the number of 12 steps completed was not directly related to gratitude, it was indirectly related to this moral virtue through spiritual growth (H3 partially supported). This result supports the findings of previous studies, which noted the beneficial role of spirituality in increasing gratitude (Hardy et al.,
2014; Krause & Hayward,
2015; Olson et al.,
2019; Rosmarin et al.,
2016; Tsang et al.,
2012; Lambert et al.,
2009).
Gratitude correlated positively with positive affect and life satisfaction but was not related to negative affect (H4 partially supported). This result is consistent with previous research, in which gratitude has been noted to be positively related to positive affect (Sun & Kong,
2013; Wood et al.,
2008,
2010). Our finding corroborates with the broaden-and-build theory of positive emotions, which views gratitude as broadening thought repertoires and building a variety of personal and social resources (Fredrickson & Joiner,
2018). Gratitude may also promote life satisfaction by deepening relationships, providing social support, improving optimism and self-efficacy, and helping individuals to cope with adversity (Grant & Gino,
2010; Puente-Díaz & Cavazos-Arroyo,
2022; Robustelli & Whisman,
2018; Wood et al.,
2008,
2010). Our findings show that gratitude provides benefits to SA members—benefits that support their recovery.
The lack of a significant relationship between gratitude and negative affect is not surprising given the fact that previous research on this topic is inconclusive; some studies noted an inverse relationship between gratitude and negative affect (Froh et al.,
2011; McCullough et al.,
2002; Wood et al.,
2008), whereas others demonstrated that these two variables are not significantly related to each other (Datu et al.,
2022; Froh et al.,
2009; Grant & Gino,
2010; Puente-Díaz & Cavazos-Arroyo,
2019). In the context of SA, many individuals with CSBD may suffer from serious trauma and have a history of parental neglect or abuse (Slavin et al.,
2020), which may be connected with high levels of grudges and revenge in this population. The relationship between gratitude and negative affect in individuals with CSBD may be thus moderated by the levels of forgiveness of others. Specifically, gratitude can be related to lower negative affect, but only if the person forgives their perpetrators. Otherwise, the disposition to gratitude may be insufficient to alleviate the negative emotions that SA members combat. Some individuals with CSBD may involve in upward counterfactual thinking (e.g., How much my life could have been better if I had not been harmed by others?), which can increase negative emotions connected with holding grudges against perpetrators, in this way blocking the potential of gratitude for reducing negative emotions (see Bernabe-Valero et al.,
2021). This topic needs further investigation, as it may be a fruitful avenue of exploration of the interactions between gratitude and forgiveness.
The results of testing H5 showed the significant effects of the number of 12 steps completed on life satisfaction and positive affect (but not on negative affect) through the paths of spiritual growth and gratitude, respectively (H5 partially supported). Involvement in a 12-step program can be considered a meaning-making system (Wnuk,
2021) consisting of a cognitive-emotional-behavioral framework that determines one’s perception, interpretation, and behaviors, and creates a ground for spiritual growth. As a result of this meaning-making system, the appreciation of the gift of recovery, which is perceived as coming from a higher power and other members of mutual-aid groups, appears (Krentzman,
2019). Gratitude, in turn, encourages each SA member to carry the message of recovery to other SA members and to serve as a sponsor to repay their higher power and other SA members for all intangible goods and support they receive during the recovery process. Involvement in this process of feeling grateful and then being inspired by gratitude to serve others may foster a feeling of usefulness and good self-esteem; it may strengthen interpersonal bonds and help people in SA stay abstinent and have a happy and good life in recovery.
The results of the study also suggest that for improving life satisfaction and increasing and sustaining positive emotions, nurturing the moral virtue of gratitude of individuals with CSBD is recommended. Indeed, in the current study, gratitude directly predicted life satisfaction, positive affect but not negative affect. By contrast, the number of 12 steps completed was directly and negatively related to negative affect, but it was only indirectly (i.e., through spiritual growth and gratitude) related to positive well-being indicators (i.e., life satisfaction and positive affect). These findings corroborate with those of positive psychology when it postulates that the lack of pathology is not the same as well-being (Jans-Beken et al.,
2018; Keyes,
2005): the mechanisms leading to reducing harmful behaviors like CSB, or diminishing negative affect that may trigger CSB, differ from the mechanisms underlying positive and desirable states.
From the practical point of view, since benefits were found for practicing the 12 steps, individuals with CSBD using other forms of treatment, such as pharmacotherapy or psychotherapy, should be encouraged to attend SA meetings as a supplementary form of support, which can help them live a more satisfying and happy life. Therapists should consider incorporating parts of the 12-step program, such as spirituality and gratitude, into the psychotherapeutic programs and interventions to support sexual abstinence and prevent relapse. Moreover, more information about SA as an effective support method for CSBD patients should be distributed among patients, regardless of their religious beliefs.
Limitations
The study has some limitations that should be discussed. First, due to the cross-sectional character of the data, no unambiguous conclusions about the directionality of the relationships can be drawn from the study. Longitudinal studies monitoring the cascading effects of involvement in SA and other mutual-aid groups for CSBD on spiritual growth, gratitude, and their relationships with subjective well-being are highly recommended. Nevertheless, the model was based on well-grounded empirical and theoretical premises, mostly from the fields of psychology of religion and spirituality and positive psychology.
Second, due to the snowball method, we could not calculate the response rate, which limits the generalizability of the results. However, reaching out to SA members in other ways would have been difficult, especially due to the large dispersion of SA groups across the country and the restrictions related to the COVID-19 pandemic. Moreover, most of our respondents were men with a higher education level. Studies in other mutual-aid groups for CSBD with more sociodemographically diversified samples are needed.
Third, the exogenous variable in our model (i.e., the number of 12 steps completed) was measured only with a single item, which may have limited the variability of responses to some degree. The number of 12 steps completed as an indicator of the advancement in the SA program has been used in previous research, e.g., in a study by Efrati and Gola (
2018), and we considered it adequate for the purpose of the current study. Nevertheless, future studies may benefit from using more complex measures of SA involvement.
Moreover, the content of one of the six items in the short version of the DSES (“I feel deep inner peace or harmony”) suggests that this measure is confounded by mental health indicators, which may have influenced the relationship between spiritual growth and well-being to some degree. Therefore, future studies exploring this relationship should consider using more pure measures of spiritual growth or the full version of the DSES.
Finally, our study was conducted in a highly religious context since more than 85% of respondents declared themselves to be religious, mostly Roman Catholic. Given that one of the roots of spiritual growth is religiousness (Puchalski & Guenther,
2012), a high number of religious individuals could have affected the results to some degree because being religious in a highly religious country is more beneficial for the individual than being religious in a more secular country (Stavrova et al.,
2013). This shortcoming can be addressed by conducting cross-cultural studies involving more secular cultures and countries in which other religious denominations than Roman Catholicism are more common.