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This paper explores, in Assiut, Egypt, how women respond to IPV and how their social relations sustain or prevent it. Nineteen qualitative interviews with married women were coded in MaxQDA, revealing a pattern of strategic conformity. Most women blamed the wife for spousal aggression and recommended modifying her behavior to end it. Talking with female kin, who often advised tolerance, was the next most common reaction. When such tactics failed, a woman might ask male kin to intervene. Seeking the police or courts was considered shameful and might jeopardize a woman’s marriage. Women enacted “the good woman” to preserve self-worth and oblige husbands or male kin to return protection. Ostensibly, these strategies mitigated IPV but maintained its underlying patriarchal structures.
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I thank Ms. Rosalie Haughton, Mrs. Jennifer Arney, and Dr. Omaima El-Gibaly for assistance in the data collection and analysis. I also thank Ms. Teresa R. Parker for assistance in preparing this manuscript. Any remaining errors are the responsibility of the author. A research grant from the Law and Social Sciences Program of the National Sciences Foundation (SES-0550387) provided financial support for the data collection and analysis.
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Yount, K.M. Women’s Conformity as Resistance to Intimate Partner Violence in Assiut, Egypt. Sex Roles 64, 43–58 (2011). https://doi.org/10.1007/s11199-010-9884-1
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