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Strategies and Techniques to Maintain Sexual Desire

verfasst von: Barry McCarthy, Emily Farr

Erschienen in: Journal of Contemporary Psychotherapy | Ausgabe 4/2012

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Abstract

The new mantra in sex therapy is desire, pleasure, eroticism, and satisfaction. There is growing acceptance that the prime sexual factor influencing the couple’s relationship is sexual desire. This conceptual/clinical paper explores two core concepts for maintaining sexual desire in committed, long-term relationships: (1) Establishing a comfortable, functional couple sexual style which balances each person’s sexual autonomy with being an intimate, erotic team and (2) adopting the Good Enough Sex model which promotes a variable, flexible sexual repertoire and recognizes the value of both mutual (synchronous) and asynchronous sexual experiences.

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Titel: Strategies and Techniques to Maintain Sexual Desire
verfasst von: Barry McCarthy
Emily Farr
Publikationsdatum: 01.12.2012
Verlag: Springer US
Erschienen in: Journal of Contemporary Psychotherapy / Ausgabe 4/2012
Print ISSN: 0022-0116
Elektronische ISSN: 1573-3564
DOI: https://doi.org/10.1007/s10879-012-9207-7

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